24th June 2024

It was a picture perfect day in Vanuatu, where I was co-hosting a week long transformational retreat. After a morning of deep dives into self-discovery, my co-host and I decided to unwind with a snorkelling adventure in the crystal-clear waters of the Pacific Ocean. We were told to swim out to a specific area and then return via a bay, which sounded like a perfect plan for a relaxing afternoon.

As we ventured out into the ocean, the vibrant underwater world was like a meditation, I felt completely present with each and every second. However, as we started our return towards the bay, the situation quickly went south. The person who had given us advice had got the tides wrong. As we struggled against the powerful waves, it became increasingly difficult to make any progress. We were thrashed and tossed by the relentless force of the ocean. At one point, the situation seemed so dire that I turned to my friend and said, “At least we have lived our lives fully.” In that moment, I truly believed it could have been our last day.

Here are the key lessons I took away from this harrowing experience, which can be invaluable for business and leadership.

1. Adapting to Changing Circumstances:

In business, as in life, plans don’t always go as expected. The currents of the market can change suddenly, and external factors can disrupt even the best-laid strategies (thanks covid). My snorkelling ordeal showcased again to me the importance of adaptability. When faced with unexpected challenges, it’s crucial to remain flexible and open to changing your approach.

2. Staying Calm Under Pressure:

Amidst the chaos of the waves, panic would have been our worst enemy. Similarly, in leadership, staying calm under pressure is essential. A clear mind can evaluate the situation accurately and make decisions that ensure the best possible outcomes. Because we remained calm we were able to create a plan to get out of there safely.

3. Seeking Alternative Paths:

Our initial plan to swim back to the bay proved impossible, so we had to find an alternative route to safety. In business, when faced with insurmountable obstacles, it’s important to consider different strategies and solutions even the ones that seem hard! Sometimes, stepping back and reassessing the situation can reveal new opportunities and paths to success.

4. Building Resilience:

The physical and mental exhaustion we felt after the ordeal was high. In the professional world, resilience is key to overcoming setbacks and continuing the pursuit of your goals. Building resilience helps you weather the storms (or seas) and come out stronger on the other side.

Are you facing turbulent times in your business or personal life? Let’s connect and navigate these challenges together. I’ve been through the waves and come out stronger, and my team can help you adapt, stay calm, and find the best paths forward. Together, we can build your resilience and achieve remarkable success.

In your corner,

Matilda Wand

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